Sunday, March 27, 2016

Guest Blogger: Ms. Stephanie Kitts -part 1

                                                                    PATIENCE    -part 1 of 2                                                                                                                                                                                              

Is your answer from God taking too long?
Do you have a dream or a longing you want to see fulfilled?
Do you have a promise that hasn’t come to pass yet?
 . . .  then you have need of PATIENCE.

PATIENCE – What is it? Why is it crucial? And . . .  how do you get it?

Galatians 5 :22-23  But the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering (or patience), gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, (or humility), temperance (or self-control): against such there is no law.

We refer to these “fruits” as virtues that the Spirit works in our lives. Patience is a virtue just as love is a virtue, so both are necessary to develop.  In our instant society however, patience is not always seen as a virtue. The sooner the better is the way the world operates. So why should we desire to wait patiently . . Why is it so crucial?    James1:2-4 – gives us a reason  . . .
Count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations. Knowing this, that the trying of your
faith worketh patience.  But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.  
Wanting nothing . . .
                
      I once saw a little pin in a catalog   -  “Settle for more!”  That’s what James is asking us to do here. . . Settle for more.  God is promising us inner satisfaction if we forego our quick fixes.  Take a minute and ask yourself the question– “What exactly am I waiting for?  Think of the two or three issues that you need patience for.  I’m believing that God is going to give you insight as I share this word for how to develop the patience necessary for these issues, and also give you practical ideas for any actions that you are to take.

So, why do we have such a problem with patiently waiting?  Mainly, because we’re believing a bunch of lies. At a minimum, believing a lie can put a real damper on your day, but at a maximum  it could totally ruin your life. We believe lies like:
If that dream or work is going to happen at all it’s entirely dependent upon me.     - (It’s not.)    or . You can’t be really happy unless you have that person, thing or circumstance in your life right now    - (Actually, you can.)    or  . . .Your desire for that need is more important than living out God’s intended purpose and plan for your life.     -   (It isn’t.)  
If anything, in God’s economy, your destiny and purpose in life is ultimately greater than your desire for whatever . . . (fill in the blank here).  There are certain instances in the Word where this idea is apparent. Not until the person actually came into their exact position or destiny did God give them  influence, or a spouse, or divine favor, or the ability to exercise certain gifts. (Think of Joseph or Daniel.) 

Sometimes the enemy tells us . . . You know it’s totally up to you to take charge of your life and get exactly what you need to make things happen.    (It’s not- it’s up to God to take care of you and to provide what you actually need.)  He may also whisper . . .There isn’t really a divine order or timing to most things- maybe for some things but not usually, so if you  hesitate you lose out.  (Ecclesiastes says there is a time and purpose to everything under Heaven. . . not just for some things but for everything.  He may also state the ultimate lie -Waiting will ultimately result in loss   -   (It won’t.)   According to Lamentations 3:25  The Lord is good to them that wait for Him, to the soul that seeketh Him.   And  Luke 8:15  But on good ground are they, which having heard the word keep it and bring forth fruit with patience.
 
We have to learn to counter the lies with the Word of God.

When you feel a little impatient take a look at a few passages in the word that reflect someone’s lack of patience . . .
1)   Genesis – 11:31  (Remember, they settled there – they should have gone on but they didn’t want to wait – they ultimately settled for less. . . )
2)  Esau handing over his birthright

There are some things in life that you won’t get without extreme patience.  You might get what others might consider “good”  but you won’t get the ultimate God has for you.  Meditate a little while on James 1:2-4 “Let patience have her perfect work that ye may be perfect and entire wanting nothing.” The end result of waiting for God’s timing  will be more than you could have ever considered, asked for or imagined. I think God said that because He endowed us with incredible imaginations and yet He can surpass even that!
                                                                   -S. Kitts © 2016


This is only the first part of a two part message by Title I Reading Specialist, Stephanie Kitts, from Dinwiddie County Public Schools in Virginia.
Please log back in tomorrow for part two of her message on Patience. Until then, please enjoy our weekly song, "Wait on the Lord" by Donnie McClurkin and Karen Clark Sheard